I [Name] take you [Name] to be my wife/husband, 

to have and to hold from this day forward, 

for better, for worse, 

for richer, for poorer, 

in sickness and in health, 

to love and to cherish, till death us do part, 

according to God’s holy law. 

In the presence of God I make this vow.

A vow is declaration and a prophecy to commit to every condition to do whatever, you have committed to do.

It have been written life and death are at the tip of the tongue, whatever you declare will come to pass.

Proverbs 18:21

Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof

 so back to our Famous Vow, It does declare good things, but so does bad things and even the worst. we will going through each bad word and its ramifications.

The worse.

This opens the abyss of a door to allow everything worst to come to you, it looks like a solidarity vow but it's not, it's actually a declaration to allow the worst to come and i believe you can live without the worst to come.

For Poorer

Again declaration to poverty, this is when people get married and poverty sets in, it's also looks like solidarity pledge to fight it together, but you didn't have to fight it if you didn't call it.

For Sickness

The same goes with sickness windows being opened, and as you observed many marriage have to pass through this windows, and it's bad.

Death.

We have been saved from death and all it's agents by the Blood of Jesus, when you bring this vow into play, you are just opening door for death to creep into and separate you at any given moment it feels like.

And the worst part of it, you involve Almighty God to oversee this torture that you have set for yourselves.

Example:

In judges 11: 30-40 we see jephthah brings on vey odd vow before the LORD to ask Victory from God, which opened a door to very painful death in his family.

He spoke and Demons utilized the words to move in his daughter to come out and be sacrificed and he have to kill his own daughter.

Now it comes to question was it necessary for such a vow, Now sits he sits up with two judgements first to kills his daughter and second to call on God to witness such atrocity.

Now is God saying about a god vow, that brings his full power into marriage.

A marriage involves 3 beings(Husband, wife and Holy Spirit) coming together to do God's work under God's Supervision.

The great purpose of all is to live in Christ, following God into his work in the world and heaven.

New Vow

I...........take you................to be my wife/husband,

to have and to hold, from this day forward,

to grow together in faith,

to grow together in love,

to grow together in God 

and to fulfill together the purpose that God have for us in this marriage, 

till the fullness of time. 

I call The LORD God to be our strength and our witness, Amen.

 

September 07, 2025

 

After sin creeped in, we forfeited God's position in our hearts, as we use to meet with God in the Garden everyday. Since then when God wants to speak to us, His Spirit will rest over a person then when that person have spoken what God want to speak or do the spirit will leave the person.

We see this in David and Saul, it's written in 

1 samuel 16: 13  
So Samuel took the horn of oil and anointed him in the presence of his brothers, and from that day on the Spirit of the Lord came powerfully upon David.

 and later on we see David  weeping in Psalms asking God not to remove his Holy Spirit from Him.

But in all this God wanted to correct his position in man's world, He was preparing to dwell inside man, because he knew a fallen man isn't capable to do Good on his own, as when you read the bible, Esraelites and their kings all reach a point where they go astray thats why it's written we have all sinned all have turned away..in Romans 3:23.

So God have to pay the penalty of death that He set for us, so that we can walk out as his sons again.

But

He also get to stay inside man's heart and give him necessary strength, wisdom to follow God in accomplishing the plan that God have for Him in this life.

That's why we hear Jesus telling his students that He have to leave so that Holy Spirit can come in and take over.

Now instead of God walking with us during the cool of the day, now God lives inside of us, fellowshipping with us 24/7, to find Him we simply have to hear from with in.

Holy Spirit seals the mark of Trinity by living inside us, as Jesus said when one is ready to receive Him, then All(God The Father, Jesus and Holy Spirit) will come and dwell.

What grieves the Holy Spirit?

Unrepentant heart, grieves the Holy Spirit , as He loves us dearly, when we go aside our good way and hold on to sinful desires and pleasures, He is grieved.

What is the primary work of the Holy Spirit?

To help us transform to become true sons of God ready to receive our inheritance and walk in God's purpose. And also to invoke God's nature in us and make it our primary appeal everyday.

Also we can't wash ourselves off sins or transforms us to become good sons of God, He is the one who cuts down all our weaknesses which made us prone to go back to bad ways.

So once we surrender to Him, we allow Him to instill in us His nature which holds his fruit that helps us to become better.

Galatians 5: 22-23 

 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law

What makes The Holy Spirit leave?

Mocking The Holy Spirit is unforgivable sin because aside from everything else and Him being Gentle, Kind you must not forget you are dealing with King of Kings,  LORD of Lords, Alfa and Omega, the beginning and the end, so make sure you know at which audience you are at, before saying anything else.

Moses was told to remove his sandals as he was Near Him and that place was declared Holy, now that God leaves inside of you that's why you also being told to keep away from council of fools.

 

September 07, 2025

 

Wife

"The LORD God also said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make for him a suitable Helper "

 Genesis 2:18

Holy Spirit

"But the Helper,  The Holy Spirit whom the Father will send in my name, He will teach you all things, and remind you of all that i said to you."

John 14:26

Both Originates from God.

Wife: Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the LORD.

Holy Spirit: But the Helper, the Holy Spirit whom the Father will send...

both works in Intercession.

Women were created with the ability to study weaknesses of people, and have always have excellent records of intercession as most of the time they are mentioned, they interceding for other/ children.

Rebecca praying about her two sons in the womb in Gen 25:22, and with that came revelation about great future and how she later played great role in it.

The Canaanite woman on her daughter to be healed, even though Jesus didn't want to heal her daughter but she went on reasoning with the LORD until Jesus healed her.

Matthew 15: 21-28

Over and over you can see through woman persistence that God was ready to change the outcome, for the woman prayer...and that made woman the perfect intercessor.

and lastly you can see in Jeremiah 9:17-26 

“This is what the Lord Almighty says: “Consider now! Call for the wailing women to come; send for the most skillful of them. Let them come quickly and wail over us till our eyes overflow with tears and water streams from our eyelids. The sound of wailing is heard from.."

Holy Spirit intercedes for us as written in Romans 8:26-27 "The Spirit helps us in our weakness, we do not know what to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans."

You see woman  was created to be man's helper, the original Man's helper, but she ended up pulling the man far away from God, so God decided come and take back that position through Holy Spirit.

PARADOX

As woman was original helper for a man and God still did not take her out of that position, now a husband have 2 helpers.

As you can see most of the times these 2 Helpers crashes as the devil have mostly found refuge in a woman.

From Adam > Eve receiving and giving bad council

Abraham > Sarah receiving and giving bad council

and many examples so women ought to be more closer to God and pray mostly as Devil hunts to posses them every time since the beginning  with Eve, daughters of men with fallen Angels, today many women are possessed by demons in many places.

What makes a good woman.

A wife ought to pray to be one with the Holy Spirit that the fruit of the Spirit fills in so that you can be a true helper that God created for a man and also will block evil to sets in your heart.

What if not?

Holy Spirit will take your place as a helper and you will be left hanging onto a man, whom God have filled in and reverence in that marriage will be thrown to nothing and not just that remember you are under man, Man can easily become a bad master and cause you pain in life if you don't stand in your position and pray for his weakness.

September 07, 2025

 

Gen 2:18
The LORD God also said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make for him a suitable helper.”

A wife is simply a helper a man or an original secretary to man on his quest to dominate and conquer the world.

A wife is a feminine part of the man, She was created to live beside the man to;

study the man,

respect the man,

be taught by the man and

be led by the man towards God.

help him fulfill God's plan for his life.

That's why women are natural followers of man, and they are usually the first to follow a man, who speaks with God, look at our churches  percentages and how women admire Pastors.

In short a woman's job is man.

A woman was  created as the most spiritual being ever

1. What people of this world calls emotions on women most of them aren't really emotions they are simply active spiritual instincts, You can see most of the witches are women and there is an order to not let witch woman leave ever asked yourself why specifically  women?
2. A woman is portal/gate between physical world and Spiritual world, she is the only being that is able to take/receive a soul from the spirit world and give it a body to live in the world, thats why even God have to use a woman to come into the world...and with it blessings to, curses and evil can pass through the poral, thats why it's extremely instructed  that we shouldn't let women witches live.
3. A woman was created to plead for her man, fight for her man in the spiritual battles, and with that she was created with the wonderful ability  to study a man and knows him better than he knows himself.

But since most women don't know why they have that ability, they end up frustrated as bieng tasked to prepare a report without knowing where to send it, thus end up annoying the man, by telling them about the weakness thus frustrating them too.

You see a woman is a natural intercessor, so God gave them ability to see weaknesses, cracks in her husband, family, community not to gossip about them but to bring them up to God.

 

Thats why she is responsible for the fall of the house as it written in proverbs 14:1 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.

A wife is third in order, simply God - Man - Wife

Even God will not  use a man's wife without that order, that's why you see, God involving Joseph, Manoah in his dealings with their wives, God asking the Samaritan Woman about her husband, when she wanted living water.

When God wants to build a ministry with somebody wife, that ministry will rest on her husband, so when she becomes rebellious of her husband and leave him the ministry will also move from her.

So when a wife serves anywhere in the ministry she ought to understand that her husband is her leader , that why they are being taught to respect and serve them even is they are not served yet.

Woman and Holy Spirit.

Woman is created to be a helper just like Holy Spirit, thats why most of the Holy Spirit attributes resembles of a good woman attributes.

Gentle

Kind

Intercedes for man

"In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know how we ought to pray, but the Spirit Himself intercedes for us with groans too deep for words. 27And He who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God." Ephesians 8:26

Helps man

Advice man

and just like woman  is Holy Spirit sensitive...Ephesians 4:29 "And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, in whom you were sealed for the day of redemption."

So in order to become a good wife, you need to connect yourself to Holy Spirit, so that you ca learn your part from Him or else you will always fight against Holy Spirit thus leading a man astray from God as in the case of Adam, Abraham etc.

A good wife understands she is a portal and thus she guards herself well by allowing herself to be fully led by the Holy Spirit, thus bringing all blessings to her family or else curses and spiritual attacks will originate from her.

A woman is being created with a convenant and she is the keaper of the convenant as she is to guard herself from destrying that covenants with another man as once she breaks it,there is no way back she is to be removed from her position as a wife as The LORD Jesus said.

September 06, 2025

 

Genesis 1:27
"so God created man in His own Image; in the image of God He created him; Male and Female He created them."

God created Mankind "MAN" both Male and Female at the same time, that's why you see male pronouns all over creation. Just like God he was spitting image of Him, self sufficient not attributed to either male of female, because He was both, just like God.

Then,

For some reason that God Almighty know, a man is created self sufficient made him alone, So God decided to find him a helper, who will be like Him but less than him, so since He is self sufficient and had everything in him, God had to performs  the first surgery, He had to remove the feminine part of the man and make it independent thus creating a woman(wife as per book of jubilee).

That's why when Adam awake from anesthesia(The Sleep), He quickly realized the operation done into him and recognize those parts on another man standing right Infront of him and quickly went into her and called her a wife and declare the declaration of attaching to her. 

Husband Work

The man was tasked with overseeing the dominion of the Earth and thats why you see God giving instructions to man, even on the preservation and working of the Garden.

Husband in Marriage

A man is the head of the House, Marriage and Wife(Woman), a man is tasked with leading the family, connecting his Family to God(God talked about Abraham that he will command his children to follow God)

Genesis 18:19

For I know him, that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the LORD, to do justice and judgment; that the LORD may bring upon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him

Husband a steward not a provider

A man is a steward, not a provider, provision is God's Job, and whomever takes that position in his family is either doomed to fail or lead himself to an early grave or strainful life.

Is a woman a steward? NO.

A woman is not made to be a steward, and when forced into that position she will not do a good job unless God himself intervenes and help her.

Why?

A woman was never made with one important attribute "SELFLESNESS" , the character only thrive in a man. 

Remember

A woman can only sacrifice herself for her children but not for her whole family including her husband, clan, community etc. and that attribute of selflessness  is very important for a person to be a good steward, that's why it's insisted again in 

Ephessians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her

A good measure of a steward is his ability to sacrifice himself for others.

Husband  ought to be one with God.

The position of a husband can only be taken if a man have learnt to be one with God, to hear Him, see Him and receive from Him since a good part of being a husband is being a good steward.

Aside from that a man won't be able to receive from God, thus ends up becoming providers themselves, thus ruining themselves through stress and opening door  for the devil and demons to hook them into chains  for the promise of being their providers, and even for those who don't bend to demons but not connected to God either end up being fully tormented in the world until death.

A husband mirror God himself in the world.

A husband is the glory of the wife.

A husband ought to be one with God because in order to rule his family justly "Being king and priest" he needs the fruit of the Spirit, without it no marriage can stand, and the funny thing is that you can  not fake or imitate to have it.

Only Holy Spirit can generate this fruit from inside.

That's why the world fails at marriage, even the teachers of marriage "Physiologists" are divorcees.

September 06, 2025

 

These are special Group of People, Kingdom Citizens who are ready to provide their service unto others free of charge as sacrifice unto LORD.

Message to the Kingdom Service Providers:

The service you will give  is not to be given  as if you are giving into Bride and Groom, but unto LORD Himself, just like what he said in 

Matthew 25:40

 "‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers,[a] you did it to me.’"

The gratefulness what you will be shown by couples or people doesn't merely represent what God have seen, the effort you made and miracles you have to put into place, for you to do this.

Remember there are angels around you to help you do this, please don't do it alone, You can find another person to merge and provide the service you choose, as long as they too know, what you are doing and to whom you are doing to.

Be careful not to allow the devil to fill you with envy and jealous and anger, once the guests starts to give Bride and groom gifts that you think, that they where better off to pay you.

Remember when  God calls you to give, He does not necessarily mean, He needs what you have, it means He just wants  to multiply whatever you have more. Example as Jesus and loaves of bread, Elijah and the widow, Abraham and Isaack sacrifice and many more...

Remember this is not a trade agreement, that you do this so that you can get more customers, remember God sees through our hearts, He can easily destroy everything as long as your heart is the wrong place.

Do this for your love for Him(The LORD)

Do this for your fellow believers of the Kingdom of God, isn't it already written in  that they( People of this World) will know us by the way we love one another.

 Do this to connect your and your business to God's Kingdom and let the rest, rest on God Himself as He promised to never leave you or abandon you forever.

It is the LORD who goes before you. He will be with you; he will not leave you or forsake you. Do not fear or be dismayed." - Deuteronomy 31:6-8

Finally you will also be called to attend final meetings before event and submit yourselves to event planners. 

May THE LORD bless you and keep you, May THE LORD shines His Face towards you and be gracious to you, May THE LORD  turn His Face towards you and give you peace, Amen. 

To register as Kingdom Service Providers click here

September 05, 2025

We are simply Kings and Priests burdened with the desire to help other Kingdom Citizens to get Married without having to delay, live in matrimony without getting fully wedded, in whom ends up being left out segregated by churches and even ends up having children and get burdened by responsibilities.

Thus we are here to follow God into this initiative as we join Him, in his Vision of that all who wishes to be married that nothing on Heaven or earth should stop them as per His Word only.

We are;

Teachers

Providing proper knowledge about marriage, origin, meaning and it's connection to the Holy Spirit.

Administrators

We organize couples, service providers, Teachers and Pastors, so that they can work together by the help of God.

Intercessors

We believe everything is build first in faith, providing unshakeable Foundation for both Marriage and wedding, believing nothing good that appear in the physical world, exist without strong foundation in the spiritual World. These are the ones who get to spend special time with God not just for the event but for themselves too.

Pastors

These are the LORD's servants who connects the marriage to the two governments, the World government and God's Kingdom Government.

September 05, 2025

God, Husband and Wife

The first marriage was simple, simply two people that God brought together to be one with themselves and with God. Having daily Fellowship with God while living in Paradise that God created for them.

That brings us to the Foundation of marriage

If any of those leaves, the marriage breaks as later on we tend to eliminate God, without knowing He is glue, wisdom and true Foundation of Marriage itself.

                         Jesus said in Mark 7:8 

“You have let go of the commands of God and are holding on to human traditions.”

We have replaced what true marriage is and hold on many human traditions, amplifying the importance of weddings and all other customary traditions which creeped into church un noticed and have made marriage very difficult and tiresome event to even think of starting practicing and mostly, churches have been used to stop 2 people on getting married, because of this so called traditions leaving aside what God said into the first place, what God have joined, let no man separate.

ABOUT KINGDOM MARRIAGE SPECIAL

Kingdom marriage special is simply there to restore, the meaning of true marriage which involve 3 beings together joined together, I repeat 3 beings.

Believing Only 3 people have a say on marriage and One Almighty have the final say.

Marriage was created to fulfil God’s vision through mankind

We believe if you love each other, and you will want to get married, our job is to make sure you acknowledge God as the Foundation of the marriage and have you start your journey of marriage under Him in God’s Kingdom. 

We allow Christians to get married without the denominational ties, Cultural restrictions, wedding parties but in the Kingdom of God.

 

 

September 01, 2025