Who is a husband?

 

Genesis 1:27
"so God created man in His own Image; in the image of God He created him; Male and Female He created them."

God created Mankind "MAN" both Male and Female at the same time, that's why you see male pronouns all over creation. Just like God he was spitting image of Him, self sufficient not attributed to either male of female, because He was both, just like God.

Then,

For some reason that God Almighty know, a man is created self sufficient made him alone, So God decided to find him a helper, who will be like Him but less than him, so since He is self sufficient and had everything in him, God had to performs  the first surgery, He had to remove the feminine part of the man and make it independent thus creating a woman(wife as per book of jubilee).

That's why when Adam awake from anesthesia(The Sleep), He quickly realized the operation done into him and recognize those parts on another man standing right Infront of him and quickly went into her and called her a wife and declare the declaration of attaching to her. 

Husband Work

The man was tasked with overseeing the dominion of the Earth and thats why you see God giving instructions to man, even on the preservation and working of the Garden.

Husband in Marriage

A man is the head of the House, Marriage and Wife(Woman), a man is tasked with leading the family, connecting his Family to God(God talked about Abraham that he will command his children to follow God)

Genesis 18:19

For I know him, that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the LORD, to do justice and judgment; that the LORD may bring upon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him

Husband a steward not a provider

A man is a steward, not a provider, provision is God's Job, and whomever takes that position in his family is either doomed to fail or lead himself to an early grave or strainful life.

Is a woman a steward? NO.

A woman is not made to be a steward, and when forced into that position she will not do a good job unless God himself intervenes and help her.

Why?

A woman was never made with one important attribute "SELFLESNESS" , the character only thrive in a man. 

Remember

A woman can only sacrifice herself for her children but not for her whole family including her husband, clan, community etc. and that attribute of selflessness  is very important for a person to be a good steward, that's why it's insisted again in 

Ephessians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her

A good measure of a steward is his ability to sacrifice himself for others.

Husband  ought to be one with God.

The position of a husband can only be taken if a man have learnt to be one with God, to hear Him, see Him and receive from Him since a good part of being a husband is being a good steward.

Aside from that a man won't be able to receive from God, thus ends up becoming providers themselves, thus ruining themselves through stress and opening door  for the devil and demons to hook them into chains  for the promise of being their providers, and even for those who don't bend to demons but not connected to God either end up being fully tormented in the world until death.

A husband mirror God himself in the world.

A husband is the glory of the wife.

A husband ought to be one with God because in order to rule his family justly "Being king and priest" he needs the fruit of the Spirit, without it no marriage can stand, and the funny thing is that you can  not fake or imitate to have it.

Only Holy Spirit can generate this fruit from inside.

That's why the world fails at marriage, even the teachers of marriage "Physiologists" are divorcees.